Starting With The Man In The Mirror (An incoherent ramble)

I watched with dismay yesterday as president Trump chose to put votes in the senate over decency with his half-throated endorsement of Roy Moore. I was mortified as I considered whether this is indicates a new level of picking sides with no regard for right or wrong.

I’m trying to remain intellectually honest, but it is hard these days. As the columnist Eugene Robinson suggests, we have become tribal in our approaches I often find myself fall into it, “If it is bad for Trump it must be good.”.

Take the tax bill for example. I am convinced it is a dishonest money grab for the rich at the sake of the poor – and that’s without reading it. I need to be careful not to pass judgment on things I haven’t researched, just because a political party to which I don’t belong came up with an idea. That is bad citizenship and I can’t abrogate my responsibilities to join a mob.

And while I think there needs to be some type of national health insurance, the idea that a government can force people to buy a product (ala Obamacare) just doesn’t seem right either. I am loath to admit it because it is conservative hinge pin, but there it is. On the other hand a single payer system makes all the sense in the world to me.

If I have heard it once, I’ve heard it a thousand times, “What would the Republicans say if Obama did (_______fill in the blank)?” It’s irrelevant. We can’t measure rightness, by the behavior of who did what to whom eight years ago. At some point we have to measure things based on their relative value and not on the political advantage one group achieves.

But it is hard. Nothing operates in isolation. Tit for tat vengeance can be a strong motivating force.

Regardless, I am going to try to be more balanced in my approach to politic stuff and look to what is right without regard to who came up with the idea. To quote the King of Pop

I’m starting with the man in the mirror
I’m asking him to change his ways
And no message could have been any clearer
If you wanna make the world a better place
Take a look at yourself and then make a change


Husband and Wife to Direct First Play: Can Marriage Survive

Here’s the haps.

My wife and I are going to direct a play together. Neither of us has ever directed anything before, but I entered this playwriting contest and in order to get it staged you had to have a director, but you could direct it yourself.

So anyway I put out some feelers and people couldn’t fit it into their schedules so I am doing it. And then I thought it might be cool if my wife and I did it.

That starts this afternoon. My plan is to blog about this for the next few weeks until show time on June 17th. It’s a one act entitled “The Maltese Duck and will be one of several The Reedy Point Players will put on in Delaware City.” It’s a semi-comedic mystery.

More to follow

Another Difference Between Men and Women

I have indisputable proof that men and women are different. It’s indisputable I tell you! What’s more my wife pointed it out.


Every weekend men go to the local Nordstrom, Kohl’s, upscale or downscale department store, find a chair and wait for their love to peruse whatever purse, shoe, belt, or other item that may be on sale. The women try on, flip through and decide. All the while the men sit in whatever chair they can find stuffed between aisles or behind fitting room mirrors.

Well, I discovered it goes both ways.

This week I had to go to Lowe’s and get some bolts. My wife went with me and patiently waited as I flipped through bolts, nuts, and washers. I tried locked nuts, regular nuts, lock washers and flat washers.

My wife, ever patient, waited.

WE checked out and as we drove through the parking lot, in car after car women were sitting reading, flipping through their smartphones, or dozing; presumably waiting for their mate who was buying some piece of whatever it is.

It is important to note that women are way smarter than men; they stayed on their cozy cars while men hunt down uncomfortable chairs.